So I really don't know what to do with this boy! DJ my littlest boy is going to be 4 in just a couple weeks and he refuses to poop on the toilet. I've talked to a lot of parents who have had the same issue but no advice has worked. He's supposed to start preschool in a little under a month and if I can't get him completely potty trained he won't be able to go. Has anyone ever been through this that can give any advice on what may work?